Getting pissed off is heading towards tilting if not already there, it will snowball and cause more loses no matter if you play good or not. Odds say, and odds demand that you will get outdrawn, your aces cracked and so forth. So knowing it is guaranteed to happen, there is no reason to let it bother you when it happens. If they do not have odds, and it happens, your getting upset they failed to give away their chips. That is back words, be happy they failed, not upset! I admit at times I get annoyed or frustrated, but even then I am able to let it go very quickly. Once a hand is over, the hand is over, let it go as your not going back in time and getting a different result. Also do not be hand results oriented, poker is long term and 5,000 hands mean nothing.
Getting run over is not a reason to get frustrated or upset either. When you have the hand, you will get doubled most of the time. There is smart aggression, and there is stupid aggression. Most players that will be running over you are using stupid aggression and you can use it against them. Smart aggression is like the time I was told at a cash table I could play any two, but would not stack off with AK, and stacked the very person that told me that a little while later since I was using smart aggression and his response was to finally play with stupid aggression to try to counter mine.
A situation that pisses many people off about draws, and did me too for a long time until I understood it, now I do it too at times.
If I decide I want to chase a flush draw, you lead into me giving me bad odds. I should fold right? Wait a second, there is possibly a way I can chase legitimately.
If the flush will win the hand. I have more pot equity than the opp does, since I am favored to win the hand at showdown, even though I do not have the best hand currently.
Opp leads giving me bad odds to call to chase on the flop. I raise (I have more pot equity at this point than the opp, so there is nothing wrong with me raising here and depending on stacks and pot size, a shove instead of just a raise is ok.) enough so that if the opp shoves I have at 1.9:1 or better odds to call. The opp shoves, I call and win the hand rivering the flush.
Most will look at that and tell themselves, that idiot raises/shoves/calls all in on a draw and sucks out...
I have done nothing wrong at all, in fact I raised/shoved when I was the favorite to win the hand, and called with correct odds to do so. The opp shoved while behind without being able to throw my odds off. The person that is now upset, is the one that in fact made the mistake.
The correct thing to do when someone raises and you know they are on a draw (I use a FD as the example, but just change the odds around for a straight draw if that is the case), is to at most only call the raise if you cannot throw the odds off, unless you just want to race to the river and hope you hold. I will look at the size of the raise and then decide if I am willing to pay that much to see if they hit on the turn since I would have to fold. I will also look to see if they miss the turn if I have enough left to bet enough to give them bad odds to chase the draw on the river. If not I have to decide if I am willing to pay to call the raise to let
two cards come if they miss the turn. I see no point in betting the turn if I cannot throw the odds off, so wait until the river to bet (just me personally, as betting is ok but the river card is going to wind up coming and I want to see it first most of the time). If not, I fold. I may have the best hand currently, but I am clearly putting chips in the pot when I am behind on the flop.
The reason people raise on strong draws like that with a simi bluff, is they are the current favorite to win the hand on the flop even though they currently do not have the best hand. If the opp folds they win the pot without having to complete the draw.
Remember, even if two players play the hand correctly and soundly, one has to lose. It will be you at times, and it will be the opp at times. Do not be upset when you lose, be happy you played the hand in a sound and smart way. Thats what is important in hands whether you win or lose, play as correctly as you know how. If you consistently lose playing as correctly as you know how, then it will become clear it is very incorrect and then find out how to resolve it, as if you play correctly you will win more over time, but you will still lose some hands anyway (thats poker).